I scrolled past a post on Facebook and saw a post that started a huge debate among my friends: should you have access to your partner's phone?

The overwhelming majority of my friends say yes. I'm talking like 92% of people say yes, I should have access to my partner's phone.

I'm in the minority because I say no. I feel like people need their own lives, and part of being in a relationship is trusting your man or woman. I don't need to scroll through my dude's phone to know he loves me. I love him enough to give him space.

Some people will say, "What if he's cheating on you? Don't you want to know?" and sure, getting cheated on sucks, but... I feel like if he wants to leave me, that's his loss. I don't need to scroll through his phone to keep him "accountable." I'm a grown woman and I trust my dude.

Am I crazy? What do you think?